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Good Manners and Form (Al-Adab)
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كتاب الأدب



1
Chapter: Al-Birr and As-Sila
باب قَوْلِ اللَّهِ تَعَالَى ‏{‏وَوَصَّيْنَا الإِنْسَانَ بِوَالِدَيْهِ‏}
2
Chapter: Who is more entitled to the best companionship?
باب مَنْ أَحَقُّ النَّاسِ بِحُسْنِ الصُّحْبَةِ
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Chapter: One should not go for Jihad without the permission of the parents
باب لاَ يُجَاهِدُ إِلاَّ بِإِذْنِ الأَبَوَيْنِ
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Chapter: A man should not abuse his parents
باب لاَ يَسُبُّ الرَّجُلُ وَالِدَيْهِ
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Chapter: The invocation of the person who is dutiful to his parents if fulfilled
باب إِجَابَةِ دُعَاءِ مَنْ بَرَّ وَالِدَيْهِ
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Chapter: To be undutiful to parents is one of the greatest sins
باب عُقُوقُ الْوَالِدَيْنِ مِنَ الْكَبَائِرِ
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Chapter: To be good to a father who is a Mushrik
باب صِلَةِ الْوَالِدِ الْمُشْرِكِ
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Chapter: Kindness by a lady who has a husband, to her mother
باب صِلَةِ الْمَرْأَةِ أُمَّهَا وَلَهَا زَوْجٌ
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Chapter: To be good to one's brother who is a Mushrik
باب صِلَةِ الأَخِ الْمُشْرِكِ
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Chapter: Superiority of good relations with relatives
باب فَضْلِ صِلَةِ الرَّحِمِ
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Chapter: The sin of Al-Qati'
باب إِثْمِ الْقَاطِعِ
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Chapter: Whoever was made wealthy because of keeping good relations with his kith and kin
باب مَنْ بُسِطَ لَهُ فِي الرِّزْقِ بِصِلَةِ الرَّحِمِ
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Chapter: Allah will keep good relations with him who keeps good relations with kith and kin
باب مَنْ وَصَلَ وَصَلَهُ اللَّهُ
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Chapter: Ar-Rahm, i.e., womb (bond of kinship) remains fresh and fruitful if one looks after it always
باب يَبُلُّ الرَّحِمَ بِبَلاَلِهَا
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Chapter: Al-Wasil is not the one who recompenses the good done to him by his relatives
باب لَيْسَ الْوَاصِلُ بِالْمُكَافِي
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Chapter: Good relations with kith and kin while a Mushrik then embraced Islam
باب مَنْ وَصَلَ رَحِمَهُ فِي الشِّرْكِ ثُمَّ أَسْلَمَ
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Chapter: Whoever allowed a small girl to play with him
باب مَنْ تَرَكَ صَبِيَّةَ غَيْرِهِ حَتَّى تَلْعَبَ بِهِ أَوْ قَبَّلَهَا أَوْ مَازَحَهَا
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Chapter: To be merciful to children and embrace them
باب رَحْمَةِ الْوَلَدِ وَتَقْبِيلِهِ وَمُعَانَقَتِهِ
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Chapter: Allah divided mercy into one hundred parts
باب جَعَلَ اللَّهُ الرَّحْمَةَ مِائَةَ جُزْءٍ
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Chapter: Killing of children for the fear that they will share meals (in the book an 's' is added to shares I have omitted that 's')
باب قَتْلِ الْوَلَدِ خَشْيَةَ أَنْ يَأْكُلَ مَعَهُ
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Chapter: To take a child in one's lap
باب وَضْعِ الصَّبِيِّ فِي الْحِجْرِ
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Chapter: Putting the child on the thigh
باب وَضْعِ الصَّبِيِّ عَلَى الْفَخِذِ
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Chapter: To keep one's covenant is part of Faith
باب حُسْنُ الْعَهْدِ مِنَ الإِيمَانِ
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Chapter: The superiority of the one who looks after an orphan.
باب فَضْلِ مَنْ يَعُولُ يَتِيمًا
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Chapter: The one who looks after and works for a widow
باب السَّاعِي عَلَى الأَرْمَلَةِ
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Chapter: The one who looks after and works for Al-Miskin
باب السَّاعِي عَلَى الْمِسْكِينِ
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Chapter: Being merciful to the people and to the animals
باب رَحْمَةِ النَّاسِ وَالْبَهَائِمِ
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Chapter: To recommend to be kind to one's neighbour
باب الْوَصَاةِ بِالْجَارِ
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Chapter: The person whose neighbour does not feel safe from his evil
باب إِثْمِ مَنْ لاَ يَأْمَنُ جَارُهُ بَوَايِقَهُ
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Chapter: A lady-neighbour should not degrade anything given by her lady-neighbour
باب لاَ تَحْقِرَنَّ جَارَةٌ لِجَارَتِهَا
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Chapter: Whosoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should not harm his neighbor
باب مَنْ كَانَ يُؤْمِنُ بِاللَّهِ وَالْيَوْمِ الآخِرِ فَلاَ يُؤْذِ جَارَهُ
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Chapter: The neighbor whose gate is nearer has more right to receive favours
باب حَقِّ الْجِوَارِ فِي قُرْبِ الأَبْوَابِ
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Chapter: Enjoining all that is Al-Ma'ruf is considered as a Sadaqa
باب كُلُّ مَعْرُوفٍ صَدَقَةٌ
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Chapter: Pleasant friendly speech
باب طِيبِ الْكَلاَمِ
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Chapter: To be kind and lenient in all matters
باب الرِّفْقِ فِي الأَمْرِ كُلِّهِ
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Chapter: The co-operation between the believers
باب تَعَاوُنِ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ بَعْضِهِمْ بَعْضًا
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Chapter: "Whosoever intercedes for a good cause will have the reward thereof..."
بَابُ قَوْلِ اللَّهِ تَعَالَى: {مَنْ يَشْفَعْ شَفَاعَةً حَسَنَةً يَكُنْ لَهُ نَصِيبٌ مِنْهَا وَمَنْ يَشْفَعْ شَفَاعَةً سَيِّئَةً يَكُنْ لَهُ كِفْلٌ مِنْهَا وَكَانَ اللَّهُ عَلَى كُلِّ شَيْءٍ مُقِيتًا}
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Chapter: The Prophet (saws) was neithr a Fahish nor Mutafahhish
باب لَمْ يَكُنِ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَاحِشًا وَلاَ مُتَفَحِّشًا
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Chapter: Good character, generosity, and miserliness
باب حُسْنِ الْخُلُقِ، وَالسَّخَاءِ، وَمَا يُكْرَهُ مِنَ الْبُخْلِ
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Chapter: How should a man be with his family?
باب كَيْفَ يَكُونُ الرَّجُلُ فِي أَهْلِهِ
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Chapter: Love is from Allah Most High
باب الْمِقَةِ مِنَ اللَّهِ تَعَالَى
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Chapter: To love for Allah's sake
باب الْحُبِّ فِي اللَّهِ
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Chapter: "...Let not a group scoff at another group.."
بَابُ قَوْلِ اللَّهِ تَعَالَى: {يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا لاَ يَسْخَرْ قَوْمٌ مِنْ قَوْمٍ عَسَى أَنْ يَكُونُوا خَيْرًا مِنْهُمْ} إِلَى قَوْلِهِ: {فَأُولَئِكَ هُمُ الظَّالِمُونَ}
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Chapter: Calling bad names and cursing
باب مَا يُنْهَى مِنَ السِّبَابِ وَاللَّعْنِ
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Chapter: Describing somebody as tall or short
باب مَا يَجُوزُ مِنْ ذِكْرِ النَّاسِ نَحْوَ قَوْلِهِمُ الطَّوِيلُ وَالْقَصِيرُ
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Chapter: Backbiting
باب الْغِيبَةِ
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Chapter: "The best family among the Ansar"
باب قَوْلِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏"‏ خَيْرُ دُورِ الأَنْصَارِ ‏"‏
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Chapter: Backbitings, wicked and suspicious people
باب مَا يَجُوزُ مِنِ اغْتِيَابِ أَهْلِ الْفَسَادِ وَالرِّيَبِ
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Chapter: An_namima is one of the great sins
باب النَّمِيمَةُ مِنَ الْكَبَائِرِ
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Chapter: What is disliked of Namima
باب مَا يُكْرَهُ مِنَ النَّمِيمَةِ
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Chapter: "...And shun lying speech."
باب قَوْلِ اللَّهِ تَعَالَى ‏{‏وَاجْتَنِبُوا قَوْلَ الزُّورِ‏}
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Chapter: What is said about a double-faced person
باب مَا قِيلَ فِي ذِي الْوَجْهَيْنِ
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Chapter: To inform the friend what has been said about him.
باب مَنْ أَخْبَرَ صَاحِبَهُ، بِمَا يُقَالُ فِيهِ
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Chapter: What is disliked of praising a person]
باب مَا يُكْرَهُ مِنَ التَّمَادُحِ
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Chapter: Whoever praises his brother with that he knows
باب مَنْ أَثْنَى عَلَى أَخِيهِ بِمَا يَعْلَمُ
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Chapter: 'Verily! Allah enjoins Al-'Adl and Al-Ihsan, and giving to kith and kin and forbids Al-Fahsha' and Al-Munkar, and Al-Baghy, He admonishes you, that you may take heed"
بَابُ قَوْلِ اللَّهِ تَعَالَى: {إِنَّ اللَّهَ يَأْمُرُ بِالْعَدْلِ وَالإِحْسَانِ وَإِيتَاءِ ذِي الْقُرْبَى وَيَنْهَى عَنِ الْفَحْشَاءِ وَالْمُنْكَرِ وَالْبَغْيِ يَعِظُكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَذَكَّرُونَ}
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Chapter: Jealousy and mutual estrangement are forbidden.
بَابُ مَا يُنْهَى عَنِ التَّحَاسُدِ وَالتَّدَابُرِ
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Chapter: "O you who believe! Avoid much suspicion, indeed some suspicions are sins. And spy not, neither backbite one another..."
باب ‏{‏يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا اجْتَنِبُوا كَثِيرًا مِنَ الظَّنِّ إِنَّ بَعْضَ الظَّنِّ إِثْمٌ وَلاَ تَجَسَّسُوا‏}‏
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Chapter: What sort of suspicion is allowed.
باب مَا يَكُونُ مِنَ الظَّنِّ
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Chapter: A believer should conceal what sins he may commit
باب سَتْرِ الْمُؤْمِنِ عَلَى نَفْسِهِ
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Chapter: Pride and arrogance
باب الْكِبْرِ
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Chapter: Al-Hijra
باب الْهِجْرَةِ
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Chapter: The desertion of a sinful person
باب مَا يَجُوزُ مِنَ الْهِجْرَانِ لِمَنْ عَصَى
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Chapter: May a person visit his friend daily, or visit him in the morning and in the evening?
باب هَلْ يَزُورُ صَاحِبَهُ كُلَّ يَوْمٍ أَوْ بُكْرَةً وَعَشِيًّا
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Chapter: The paying of a visit
باب الزِّيَارَةِ وَمَنْ زَارَ قَوْمًا فَطَعِمَ عِنْدَهُمْ
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Chapter: Whoever spruced himself up for the delegates.
باب مَنْ تَجَمَّلَ لِلْوُفُودِ
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Chapter: The establishment of a bond of brotherhood and the conclusion of a treaty
باب الإِخَاءِ وَالْحِلْفِ
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Chapter: Smiling and laughing
باب التَّبَسُّمِ وَالضَّحِكِ
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Chapter: "O you who believe! Be afraid of Allah, and be with those who are true"
بَابُ قَوْلِ اللَّهِ تَعَالَى: {يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا اتَّقُوا اللَّهَ وَكُونُوا مَعَ الصَّادِقِينَ} وَمَا يُنْهَى عَنِ الْكَذِبِ
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Chapter: The righteous way or guidance
باب فِي الْهَدْىِ الصَّالِحِ
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Chapter: To be patient when one is harmed
باب الصَّبْرِ عَلَى الأَذَى
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Chapter: Whoever did not admonish people in their faces
باب مَنْ لَمْ يُوَاجِهِ النَّاسَ بِالْعِتَابِ
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Chapter: Whoever calls his brother a Kafir without any grounds
باب مَنْ كَفَّرَ أَخَاهُ بِغَيْرِ تَأْوِيلٍ فَهْوَ كَمَا قَالَ
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Chapter: Whoever does not consider as Kafir the person who says that...
باب مَنْ لَمْ يَرَ إِكْفَارَ مَنْ قَالَ ذَلِكَ مُتَأَوِّلاً أَوْ جَاهِلاً
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Chapter: What to say when one is angry or harsh for Allah's sake
بَابُ مَا يَجُوزُ مِنَ الْغَضَبِ وَالشِّدَّةِ لأَمْرِ اللَّهِ
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Chapter: To be cautious from being angry
باب الْحَذَرِ مِنَ الْغَضَبِ
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Chapter: Al-Hayd
باب الْحَيَاءِ
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Chapter: "And if you do not feel ashamed, then do whatever you like."
باب إِذَا لَمْ تَسْتَحِي فَاصْنَعْ مَا شِئْتَ
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Chapter: Not feel shy of the truth to comprehend the religion
باب مَا لاَ يُسْتَحْيَا مِنَ الْحَقِّ لِلتَّفَقُّهِ فِي الدِّينِ
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Chapter: "Make things easy for the people and do not make things difficult for them."
باب قَوْلِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم: «يَسِّرُوا وَلاَ تُعَسِّرُوا»
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Chapter: To be cheerful with the people
باب الاِنْبِسَاطِ إِلَى النَّاسِ
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Chapter: To be gentle and polite with the people.
باب الْمُدَارَاةِ مَعَ النَّاسِ
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Chapter: A believer not to be stung twice out fo the same hole
باب لاَ يُلْدَغُ الْمُؤْمِنُ مِنْ جُحْرٍ مَرَّتَيْنِ
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Chapter: The right of the guest
باب حَقِّ الضَّيْفِ
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Chapter: To honour guest and to serve him
بَابُ إِكْرَامِ الضَّيْفِ وَخِدْمَتِهِ إِيَّاهُ بِنَفْسِهِ
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Chapter: To prepare the meals for the guest
باب صُنْعِ الطَّعَامِ وَالتَّكَلُّفِ لِلضَّيْفِ
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Chapter: Anger and impatience before a guest
باب مَا يُكْرَهُ مِنَ الْغَضَبِ وَالْجَزَعِ عِنْدَ الضَّيْفِ
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Chapter: "By Allah, I will not eat till you eat."
باب قَوْلِ الضَّيْفِ لِصَاحِبِهِ لاَ آكُلُ حَتَّى تَأْكُلَ
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Chapter: To respect the old ones who should start talking
باب إِكْرَامِ الْكَبِيرِ وَيَبْدَأُ الأَكْبَرُ بِالْكَلاَمِ وَالسُّؤَالِ
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Chapter: What kinds of poetry, Rajaz and Huda is allowed
باب مَا يَجُوزُ مِنَ الشِّعْرِ وَالرَّجَزِ وَالْحُدَاءِ وَمَا يُكْرَهُ مِنْهُ
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Chapter: Lampooning Al-Mushrikin
باب هِجَاءِ الْمُشْرِكِينَ
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Chapter: To indulge in poetry
بَابُ مَا يُكْرَهُ أَنْ يَكُونَ الْغَالِبُ عَلَى الإِنْسَانِ الشِّعْرُ حَتَّى يَصُدَّهُ عَنْ ذِكْرِ اللَّهِ وَالْعِلْمِ وَالْقُرْآنِ
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Chapter: Taribat yaminuka and Aqra halqa
باب قَوْلِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏"‏ تَرِبَتْ يَمِينُكَ ‏"‏‏.‏ ‏"‏ وَعَقْرَى حَلْقَى ‏"‏‏.‏
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Chapter: "They assumed or claimed that..."
باب مَا جَاءَ فِي زَعَمُوا
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Chapter: Saying "Wailaka."
باب مَا جَاءَ فِي قَوْلِ الرَّجُلِ وَيْلَكَ
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Chapter: The signs of loving Allah
بَابُ عَلاَمَةِ حُبِّ اللَّهِ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ
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Chapter: The saying of one man to another: Ikhsa
باب قَوْلِ الرَّجُلِ لِلرَّجُلِ اخْسَأْ
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Chapter: Saying: "Marahaba"
باب قَوْلِ الرَّجُلِ مَرْحَبًا
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Chapter: Calling the people by their father's name
باب مَا يُدْعَى النَّاسُ بِآبَائِهِمْ
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Chapter: One should not say 'Khabuthat nafsi'
باب لاَ يَقُلْ خَبُثَتْ نَفْسِي
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Chapter: Do not abuse Ad-Dahr
باب لاَ تَسُبُّوا الدَّهْرَ
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Chapter: "Al-Karm is only the heart of a believer
باب قَوْلِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم: «إِنَّمَا الْكَرْمُ قَلْبُ الْمُؤْمِنِ»
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Chapter: Saying "let my father and mother be sacrificed for you".
باب قَوْلِ الرَّجُلِ فَدَاكَ أَبِي وَأُمِّي
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Chapter: Saying "May Allah sacrifice me for you".
باب قَوْلِ الرَّجُلِ جَعَلَنِي اللَّهُ فِدَاكَ
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Chapter: The most beloved names to Allah 'Azza wa Jall
باب أَحَبِّ الأَسْمَاءِ إِلَى اللَّهِ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ
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Chapter: "Name yourselves by my name, but do not call yourselves by my Kunyah."
باب قَوْلِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏
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Chapter: The neame: 'Al-Hazn'
باب اسْمِ الْحَزْنِ
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Chapter: To change a name for better name
باب تَحْوِيلِ الاِسْمِ إِلَى اسْمٍ أَحْسَنَ مِنْهُ
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Chapter: Whoever named by the names of the Prophets.
باب مَنْ سَمَّى بِأَسْمَاءِ الأَنْبِيَاءِ
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Chapter: To name: 'al-Walid'
باب تَسْمِيَةِ الْوَلِيدِ
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Chapter: Whoever, while calling a friend, omits a letter from his name
باب مَنْ دَعَا صَاحِبَهُ فَنَقَصَ مِنِ اسْمِهِ حَرْفًا
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Chapter: A child may be given Al-Kunyah and one may be given Al-Kunyah before children
باب الْكُنْيَةِ لِلصَّبِيِّ وَقَبْلَ أَنْ يُولَدَ لِلرَّجُلِ
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Chapter: To be called Abu Turab, though one already has another Kunyah name
باب التَّكَنِّي بِأَبِي تُرَابٍ، وَإِنْ كَانَتْ لَهُ كُنْيَةٌ أُخْرَى
114
Chapter: The name which is most disliked by Allah.
باب أَبْغَضِ الأَسْمَاءِ إِلَى اللَّهِ
115
Chapter: The Kunyah of Al-Mushrik.
باب كُنْيَةِ الْمُشْرِكِ
116
Chapter: Al-Ma'arid is a safe way to avoid a lie
باب الْمَعَارِيضُ مَنْدُوحَةٌ عَنِ الْكَذِبِ
117
Chapter: The description of something by a man as 'nothing' while he means that it is not true
باب قَوْلِ الرَّجُلِ لِلشَّىْءِ لَيْسَ بِشَىْءٍ وَهْوَ يَنْوِي أَنَّهُ لَيْسَ بِحَقٍّ‏‏
118
Chapter: To raise the sight towards the sky
باب رَفْعِ الْبَصَرِ إِلَى السَّمَاءِ
119
Chapter: Whoever dipped a stick in water and mud
باب نَكْتِ الْعُودِ فِي الْمَاءِ وَالطِّينِ
120
Chapter: One may scrape up the ground
باب الرَّجُلِ يَنْكُتُ الشَّىْءَ بِيَدِهِ فِي الأَرْضِ
121
Chapter: The saying of Takbir and Tasbih at the time of wonder
باب التَّكْبِيرِ وَالتَّسْبِيحِ عِنْدَ التَّعَجُّبِ
122
Chapter: It is forbidden to throw stones
باب النَّهْىِ عَنِ الْخَذْفِ
123
Chapter: To say 'Al-Hamdu-lillah' on sneezing
باب الْحَمْدِ لِلْعَاطِسِ
124
Chapter: Tashmu to the sneezer if he praises Allah
باب تَشْمِيتِ الْعَاطِسِ إِذَا حَمِدَ اللَّهَ
125
Chapter: Sneezing, and yawning
باب مَا يُسْتَحَبُّ مِنَ الْعُطَاسِ، وَمَا يُكْرَهُ مِنَ التَّثَاؤُبِ
126
Chapter: When somebody sneezes, what should be said?
باب إِذَا عَطَسَ كَيْفَ يُشَمَّتُ
127
Chapter: Tashmu should not be said to a sneezer if he does not say 'Al-Hamdu-lillah'
باب لاَ يُشَمَّتُ الْعَاطِسُ إِذَا لَمْ يَحْمَدِ اللَّهَ
128
Chapter: If someone yawns, he should put his hand over his mouth
باب إِذَا تَثَاوَبَ فَلْيَضَعْ يَدَهُ عَلَى فِيهِ